Princes from Mars

People are colorful. Each of us comes from different walks of life. And so everyone is actually unique. Guys are different too, so if you girls are dating anyone, check your compatibility first.

- Mr.Emo

He would definitely showers you with tonnes of compliments, eventhough you tries your best to shun him away. He could be lovey dovey in nature and often indulges in flirting. He is definitely very possessive and even smallest joke connecting you to another guy will upset him. Don't try to wake the hurricane hidden behind his bubbly character. It will take hours or maybe days for him to recover. Beware - Extremely Sensitive!

-Dating Pros : Hell ya, he will make you like you're the most beautiful girl in the world, you will be taken to the best restaurants in the town. If he loves you, he does whatever it takes, including helping you to clean your house. He will protect you always. When things get bad, don't be suprised if he cries to you.

-Dating Cons: He would love to control you. So relationships works for most girls who equally love to be under control. He thinks conservatively, so if you're a free thinker, be ready to expect some clashes here and there.

Example of SMS : - 'Until the day I go into the casket, I shall never forgot you baby'
                             - 'Baby, I like your nose, bla3'

-Mr. Positive Thinker

He's one of the type who would love to give assurance that everything will be alright, even when there's no signs of life getting any better. He could be a good listener. He might not be very romantic but he will be practical. He will be honest and thus he will be a good-friend type. Sometimes, he needs assurance from you too, probably in making decisions. At times he will be soothing, at times he can be as boring as your grandda;) My Beloved Counselor.

Dating Pros : You will have an ear to hear your problems. He will not behave like a jealous boyfriend. You can freely chat about your ex-es. And he will laugh and make joke together with you!

Dating Cons : If you're romantic in heart, perhaps you could not see his perception of romance. If you don't like indecisive guys, this guy might not be your ample choice. At times, he can be sarcastic, and so if you're a sensitive girl, arguments can take place.

Example of SMS : -'Don't worry, everything will be fine."
                             -All is well.

-Mr. Ego

He has got ego, and that's the main problem. Usually these types of guys own something really good, may it be handsome features, education qualification, high-paying jobs, nice talents and rarely NOTHING visible. He likes conservative girls, do not like to lose in a argument with a girl. He is the priority always, his job is the best, he knows the best, you should like what he likes. Holy Crap!

Dating Pros : He best suits indecisive and dependent girls. As long as you accepts him as the dominator, you're in the safe territory.

Dating Cons: You're prone to depression and could end up feeling under-estimated. You must ready to hear his greatness and readily compliment him too.

Example of SMS: - 'You're lucky to get me, you know?'
                           - 'Many girls were after me, I rejected all of them'

- Mr.Good Guy

He respects you all the way. Relationship has rule, and you've gotta obey to it. Misbehave? Never in his dictionary. Often shy in nature, although you can't predict how's he like at home. He's often obedient to you. This is the rare species of sweet type of guys. Some of them even potraits gentleman-like attitudes, including opening the car door for you. How Sweet!

Dating Pros: He is good. You don't have to nag at him to leave his bad habits. Your parents definitely will like him.

Dating Cons: If he's too good, you can end up bullying him. Love life could be very boring. Beware of hidden hazards, some guys pretends good, while others have Mr.Hyde personality.

Example of SMS: - 'Honey, take your breakfast ya'
                            - 'Honey, I'll fetch you later'

-Mr.Bad Guy

He's hot but yeah the title says it all, he's bad. He could drink, smoke, fight, drink-drive, or even have slept with girls. In summary, he's spoilt. Responsibility - never exists in his dictionary. Rarely this guys will be approaching you over marriage but if they did probably it's a trick or otherwise the playguy have fallen for you. Then, you will see real life dramas like he's changing, and of course don't believe it at first sight. If he loves you, bad guys will introduce you his friends, parents and willing to meet your mom. Another sign could be, frustration messages from other girls questioning absence of messages and calls from him, haha. Can it love or loyalty? Too Risky!

Dating Pros : He is fun and lively. He almost a man. He will there to fight with you as well as to cheer you up. Plus point, a real 'bad guy' at heart will never takes money from girl. He loves spending on you. Nobody can see you, otherwise they're to get whacked.

Dating Cons : He can be over-possessive at times, as he loves you to be under his control. Commitment, can he real into it?

Example of SMS : -'Syg whr r u and with who?, what r u doing? eat d? what you ate? '
                             - 'You're my pondati (wife)' (this is the answer you're expected to hear when you suggest to be his friend)

-Mr.Desperate

He can sound flirty. He gives you of never-ending compliments even at 3 am in the morning. He could be lonely, therefore he could be desperately looking for a girl to be in relationship. He notices each and everything about you. He loves to talk to you, messages you and might not be giving up even when you're showing clear sign of rejection. Escape!

Dating Pros : Hehe, this is the time to get free sponsor. He will buy you whatever you ask.

Dating Cons : He could be lovey dovey in nature. He gets close to you fast. If you need a space, presence of this guy could be suffocating.

Example of SMS : - 'Dear, you're very beautiful' (10 times repetition)
                            - 'Dear, you're very very beautiful (another 10 times)

-Mr.Workaholic

He's a believer of no money, no honey concept. Dating or working? You already knows the answer. Otherwise, he could be good guy. Probably, a family-man type too. Boredom!

Dating Pros: He is often stable and so you often gets whatever you ask for. He's not good at choosing gift but he's good at paying. When he's in mood, he knows how to be romantic too.

Dating Cons: He's always busy with work. If you could not tolerate with his nature, you will suffer from loneliness and boredom.

Example of SMS : - Sorry sayang, I have to work tonight.
                            - Hello sayang, I'm in the midst of work.

- Mr. Cheap

Their phone numbers are free of charge, you can get them on the second you meet them. They're some expensive version of these guys too, whereby they behave cheap in a relationship including digging his gf's money for his personal use..Disaster!

Dating Pros : He's not expensive, he is affordable. You need someone to talk, just ring him up

Dating Cons : He might use you as his personal financer and blackmail to leave you if decide not to give it.Only dependent women stays with such a guy.

Example of SMS : - I like action movie, let's go for one (even if you're reluctant)
                            - If you didn't give me money, I have no other option than to die (pathethic!)

Mr. Protective

Their really as ample as a man should, and as caring as no other gentlemen will be. He protects you even when you're walking down a pedestrian lane. He buys you food and ensure that you finish them. He ask for what's wrong if your feet is itchy. Lover Boy.

Dating Pros : He's very caring, and whenever you're with him, you will never left lonely.

Datings Cons : Sometimes, he can act like controlling you. In long term, you might long for freedom.

Example of SMS : - Have you taken your medicine?
                             -Have you reached safely?

So girls, where does your man belongs to? There is no body perfect in this world. Anyway, a perfect partner is a partner who makes you to feel perfect. Don't be blindfolded by love. Take your time-the woman in the mirror will be thanking you for your good decision. Be in relationship only if you could tolerate on his bad sides, or else don't be afraid to walk away. A better one is waiting for you.

7 Signs that You are in Wrong Job!

By Susan Andrewes

Given that most people spend a third of their waking hours at work, you’d think that it’d be extremely important to get a job doing something that we enjoy. And yet studies show that the vast majority of us are in jobs that we hate. Why is that the case? After all, the world of work has radically changed over recent years, bringing with it not just uncertainty, but also enormous opportunity. Increasingly, savvy professionals are regaining control over their personal and professional happiness, and are setting out to design a career that is both meaningful and rewarding AND which fits in around their ideal lifestyle.
But how do you know if you are just a bit bored, or if you really are in the wrong job? Read on to find out.

1. You’d change jobs in a flash if it weren’t for the money

So you hate your job but think you can’t afford to leave? This is a natural concern, and one of the most common reasons stopping those I speak to from taking the plunge and leaving a job that is making them utterly miserable. But ask yourself honestly – is the salary you earn really worth the impact your job is having on your health, your family and your happiness? The truth is that most people increase their spending to match what they earn, whether it is £30,000 or £300,000. What do you choose to spend your money on? Can you really not afford to leave your job, or is money simply an excuse for not having the courage to up and leave?

2. You’d change jobs tomorrow if you knew what else you could do

This is a really good sign that you shouldn’t be there. I know exactly what it’s like to want desperately to leave your job, but to put it off until next month or even year because you have no idea what else you could do. Don’t let this keep you in a job you hate – deciding what to do next is straighforward with professional support, and you’ll have fun doing it! Rather than waste the next two years trying to figure out what else you could do, invest in a good coach who will help you do this in a fraction of the time. With a clear idea of what you’d really love to do, you’ll suddenly find you have the vision, energy and drive to make it happen.

3. You spend Sundays dreading Monday mornings

We’ve all been there – waking up on Sunday in anticipated dread of yet another stressful and unfulfilling week ahead. Even the thought of having to wake up early to put in a mindless week’s work can put a real downer on your weekend. It doesn’t need to be this way. Imagine what it would be like to enjoy every minute of your Sunday in eager anticipation of Monday morning and in the knowledge that you will be spending the week doing something that you are passionate about and that makes a real difference to the world. And yes, not only is this possible, it’s actually relatively easy once you know how to make it happen.

4. You hate your boss with a passion

Not getting on with your boss is the number one reason so many people give for wanting out. Given how much time we spend at work, having a great boss that makes you feel good about your skills and who values your contribution is essential. A boss who insults or bullies you, or who shows no interest in what makes you feel valued, can turn a once happy and dedicated employee into one who can’t stand even setting foot in the office. If your workplace has become toxic because of a bad boss or negative colleagues, then seriously consider your options. No amount of money or job status is worth a poisonous working environment.

5. Your job has turned you into someone you don’t even recognise

Do you feel like your job has turned you into someone else? Has your creativity, drive and passion been so crushed by job stress, negativity and small-mindedness among colleagues that you don’t even know who you are anymore? It can be incredibly easy to allow workplace negativity and office culture to become such a part of us that we end up losing all sense of who we are and what makes us stand out. If you have become someone you no longer recognise, or worse, you don’t like what you have become, then it is a sure sign that you need to get out.

6. Your work is ruining your health

Stress, boredom, toxic work environments, negativity among colleagues and pressure from your boss – all of these can turn what could have been a great job into a job from hell. Headaches, anxiety, insomnia, depression and anger can all be caused by a soul-destroying job and are probably one of the clearest signs that you need to stop making excuses and say ‘enough is enough’. Having the courage to turn your back on a job that is destroying your health is one of the best things you can do, and you will be amazed at how every aspect of your health improves once that weight has been lifted off your shoulders.

7. No amount of money would make you happy

This is the surest sign of all that your job is simply not worth the sacrifice and pain of staying where you are. Society has wrongly taught us that work is something to be suffered and endured, and we often feel that the more we hate our job, the more we deserve to be paid. When, in my previous job, it dawned on me that no amount of money would make me want to continue to work for the organisation in question, it was a life-changing moment. From then on, I knew that something had to change, and that I had to make it happen. That realisation alone gave me the courage to overcome my fear of leaving a secure job for the great unknown and to do whatever it took to find work doing something that would make me happy. Staying in a job that makes you so miserable that even a pay rise wouldn’t do it for you is the biggest sign of all that you are in the wrong place.

If you are in a job that is reducing you to tears, then don’t despair, do something about it. There are countless inspirational people out there who’ve already made a huge success of their own career change, and some great excellent coaches who will help you break free from a job you hate, work out what it is you really want to do with your life, and land your own dream career.