PEOPLE - each one is unique. No one is exactly the same, not even identical twins.
I can't understand these people:
1. The Lament-giver
COME ON, it's over. Your tears,curses or regrets are pointless, they will neither. refine your cracked past nor bring back the good golden time. You can better spend more time working for your better future. Past can't be altered but future could be properly planned, even though God is the real planner. Sometimes, your hard desires wins the fate. If you have been hurt, sit back and relax. Karma will revenge on your behalf and there is no need to revenge. Forgiving one is indeed the best gift you can give to yourself, as you decided to give yourself a chance to move on instead of holding on to the frustrating past.
2. The Jealous One
Nothing belongs to anyone. The rich ones aren't going to take their prosperity to the heaven. Every hard work will be paid, and that's the law of Karma. If you're rich today, it's your karma from the past. If you're not rich today, that's also your karma's merit. Poverty is better than Lordship, whereby good attitudes and personality stands much better value than your property and status. Appreciate what you have today. There is nothing more noble than being truly happy for someone's success.
3. The Casanova
Sex is a physical process. It is like a sport. Love is a chemical process. It is abstract, therefore I can't describe it. Some people takes love as a sport, they keep changing the players. Some people takes love similar to insurance policy, they claim for deposit of sex to ensure longevity of love. Sex is just the intimate part of love, it takes much more to ensure a successful love story. Love someone, firstly learn to give and take respect. Then, learn to sacrifice. Commitment protects your love story, not sex. Sex just adds spice to it.
4. Desperate love seekers
Understand this: One side love exists. If you love someone, maybe you won't get the return but forcing one to accept you is nothing but PATHETIC! Nobody going to stop you from loving, but if you decide to fight for your love, go ahead fighting in a good way. Win the attention. Emotional blackmail are craps, it reflect your low self-esteem. Who is meant for you, will be your with time. There is no need to rush, or you might be the first one to regret.
5. A Bad Leader
Job of boss is not just to be bossy. You have get down to the field. Monarchy is a mostly a failure, so be democratic. Listen to criticism and learn to develop better leadership from the comments. If you're a sadist, you might be hated by your teammates. A good leader will know how to keep his teammates happy too. Happy workers lead to productive team.
6. The Poker-faced
Being emo is seriously okay till it affects everything else that you do in life. If your boyfriend does not reply your text message, you don't have to show anger on your colleague. If your mum scolds you, you don't have to shout at your sister. Be professional in whatever you do. Smile to people, anger is not a good way ANd of course, grow up! Face it don't Facebook it.
7. The Rude Ones
If you sits at the front desk, you're suppose to be nice. You're not suppose to be ignorant. It is rude to keep people waiting for your answer without acceptable reason. Greet with smile. God will bless you politeness. Learn to respect the elderly. Learn to respect people. A government job does not give you the right to show face at people.
8. The Liar
If you need something or dislike something, just put it into nice words.I will try my best to understand. Truth hurts but lies can kill. If people hates you for telling the truth, at least you was honest and yet they're the loser as they don't like the truth. Move on happily. If you need to lie to keep someone with you, you're not lying to them but to yourself. You are just cheating yourself alone.
9. The Hypocrites
I have a life to live, and I wish you don't have to be that nosy that you even peep at my new stand fan. Why you need to know about my salary? About my boyfriend. ABout when I'm getting married. Keep your limits, and see how people look high on you.
10. The Thick Money-Faced
Money maybe something but it isn't everything. You don't have to lose self-respect over it. What shall be yours, will be yours. If you feel manipulated, discuss in a good way, any good people will not cheat you over your share. Be generous, then money will come to you. Greedy people always has something to pay.
11. The Big Boaster
I know you're great to some extent but you don't have to keep on repeating your success stories, unless you have been asked. If you decide to be humble and down-to-earth, more and more people will be attracted to you. In that case, they will be talking about you, your talents will shine in others point of view. Isn't that greater than your cheap attitude of bragging.
12. The Negative Thinker
It is not wrong to think negative at times, to err is human indeed. It is not possible either to maintain positivity along our timeline. Anyway, if you keep on thinking negative, nobody can help you. If you keep on posting negatively on the wall, you will only earn sympathy, not solution. Of course, you can share your feelings, but avoid giving the bad impression about your identity to others. Be confident, be strong. Everyone has great problems, but remember God is greater than your problems. Sai Ram! Even if you share to others, how many really gets you? And even if they do, how many really manage to help you for real? Maybe you will only hear, 'Everything will be Ok'. And does that help you? This statement never helped me, it only made me felt even miserable.
We can't change people but we can certainly change ourself.
Methods to Overcome the Tough Characters:
1. Lament-giver - listen without arguing, the more you argue, the more they lament or critic.
2 Jealous One - Avoid much contact.
3. Casanova - Leave him/her
4.Desperate love-seeker - Explain once, avoid next
5. Bad leader - Don't argue, bear till you can.
6 Poker-faced - Don't allow them to spoil your good mood
7. Rude ones - Leave in peace, even if they piss you off
8. Liar - don't get fooled again and again
9. Hypocrites - Avoid as much as possible
10. Money-faced -Avoid commitment, if committed settle their deal carefully
11. Boaster - Just listen to their stories and laugh inside.
12. Negative thinker - Motivate them. If persists, leave them alone.
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