Does He Loves You or Loves You Not

Being in a relationship could be an excellent feeling. Yeah, especially if you are showered with tonnes of care, sweet compliments and maybe some gifts too. Anyway, we're all just human beings and we do not possess any extraordinary ability to read minds. I came across this wonderful author (I strongly believe that he is a man) who shared some good points on how to know if man really loves his woman. And Sophy feels that it makes sense after all! Here's the link for those curious readers. http://accofranco.hubpages.com/hub/How-To-Know-if-a-Man-Truly-Loves-you

The author claimed that a guy who loves you, his feelings will be reflected in his beahvior, expression, passion and actions alike. That means if a guy claims to love you by words, believe me, that's not convicing enough. Look at his eyes and manners. He could have been saying the same to many more women.

Guys in love, would to some extent try to impress you but not aggresively. From personal experience, Sophy feels that guys have their own egoes too and often they cross their border limit for a woman. However, little changes can be expected. Perhaps, you will see him wearing outfits preferred by you or otherwise if he's out of sudden listening to your favourite tunes, at least when you're around.

When in love, guys love to stare at their girls especially when the girls are not aware of it.And being a girl, it's fun to catch those culprit eyes, red-handed. If he loves or admires you, he will try to avoid being caught or if by accidentally you won, he will frown at you. Glancing isn't wrong, but where does the glance goes, to your face or somewhere else? If a guy loves you with a good intention, his glances will be a your face and your hair.

If the guys are showing clear interest on sexual intercourse, that's not love!  If a guy loves you, he consider your feelings and emotions. He will never force you to have sex with him. So, after this, if your says 'Have sex with me, if you really loves me', show him the middle finger and say 'Go to Hell'. Yeah, I've come across some guys who admit that they force the girls into sex in order not to loose their girls. Anyway, Sophy thinks that is an cowardly action. Where is your manhood? Why can't you win her in a better way? If you loves her, you can't force her to love you back, that is persuasion. You're like selling yourself!  If you loves her, you will let her to be happy, wherever she is and whoever she might be with.

A guy in love with you, will try to protect you from any forms of trouble. He will offer help when you're in need. He will get jealous if you're spending time with your other guy friends, well stage of jealousy differs with individuals. He wants to spend time with you and share almost every stories which happened when you're not around. Please note that, he will be himself during this conversation, he will not change his slang, accent or even four letter words. If he's organizing his words and language, then he might not be in love with you. Honesty is the best policy, at least for guys when they found their Miss Right. Trust, is what most men demand from their women.

A guy who loves you, will try his best to make you happy and will not be constantly provoking your anger. He dates you boldly in open places, and not in bedroom or corners. He daringly declares to friends and family, about you. He will be talking about you to most of his friends. And yeah Sophy feels that guys are often simple. They don't commit unless they want to commit.

Lastly, money and love, have no significant connection. If a guy loves to spend on you, doesn't mean that he loves. Rich guys do behave in such manner to impress girls merely. So don't be fooled. Valuable gifts do not carry any meanings, but the intention of the giver is more important. At times, a lollipop carries more meaning than a diamond ring, when it is given with love.

So, girls, yourself are far too precious to be given away as freebies to just any fools. Think before you commit. Change your mind, love is not equal to sex at all. Sex is for fun, and it's just physical. Love-making involves emotions and it only occurs with the right partner. Intimacy in early relationship is a big no-no but that is what happening everywhere. Nobody can love you, if you are not loving yourself. Everybody will use you the maximum, if you're not protecting or speaking for yourself.