1. People likes you better when you are happy than when you are sad.
2. When you face some big problem in your life, many will come to pour sympathy on you, that's when you will be blinded by false hope. Close your door for these people, say aloud that you need 'empathy' not sympathy. If they don't understand how sympathy differs from empathy, ask them to refer to the 'Oxford'.
3. Grief is long process, it changes everything in your life. It takes own hard effort to come out from it. Times eases the pain, but memories are eternal. Once in a while, you just can't stop the tears when these memories pass by your mind.
4. Friends? Nobody worth a friend during grief because they may seem to understand you. but actually they're not and it's not their fault either because they are not experiencing the same. They have their own problems and own life. They don't have time for you.
5. Some, sorry many friends are 'happy' companions. They shun away from you during the period when you're really put into test.
6. Family? Not everyone gets understanding family members. If you does, be grateful to God.
7. Love and relationships is not meant for everybody, especially not when you have found the totally wrong person. So falling in love, is not necessarily beautiful for everyone.
8. We can never change anyone, unless they themselves want to change.
9. When a girl is all alone by herself in this greedy world, that is when she faces all sorts of challenges. Many things are just can't be shared to anybody.
10. A lonely girl has definitely no one to turn to even when she's afraid, Lord is her sole protector and provider.
11. Listening ears are not abundant, especially when you have a really sad story to tell. Many of voiced dissatisfaction will sound like 'complaints' to many ears. Sometimes, it's better to suppress your feelings.
12. Luck is imaginary in some people's life.
13. Some guys out there are very much oppurtunist, they try hard to use a girl's problem to play with her feelings and even in her life. Because they think, who will defend this poor girl? But they don't know that Sai is her protector.
14. Another type of people, just talk whatever without thinking about the practical applications. Some suggestions aren't good, but people will suggest to you because yet it is not themselves who going to do that.
15. Sometimes you will feel like an orphan and you may question 'is there anybody, name just one person who truly care for you', then you will realize that problems are yours, it's none of others business. They don't have the necessity to care for you.
16. Some just do not prefer to have you around, because you're not important in their life. They will only knock your door when they need some favor. During other time, their ears are deafened even when you ask them something.
17. A few like to pour sweet words on you, in which you knew how much is their 'sincerity'. Like sea waves washes the shore, their words are also temporary.
18. A real protector of a girl, is her daddy. When he's gone forever, there will never going to be a substitute. Fingers are not enough to count the amount of people who hurts her feelings.
19.When people want to see happiness, you show them that you are happy. They will believe that, they will be glad and they will ever bother to know if you are really happy. They don't have too, either.
20. Trust nobody but God. He listens...
This is not just created for fun, it is based on very personal experiences. I'm not tagging anybody here, because it is not meant for anybody. If anyone felt hurt, please accept my apology. I'm not pinpointing anybody'd misdeeds. This is just a sharing of feeling.
2. When you face some big problem in your life, many will come to pour sympathy on you, that's when you will be blinded by false hope. Close your door for these people, say aloud that you need 'empathy' not sympathy. If they don't understand how sympathy differs from empathy, ask them to refer to the 'Oxford'.
3. Grief is long process, it changes everything in your life. It takes own hard effort to come out from it. Times eases the pain, but memories are eternal. Once in a while, you just can't stop the tears when these memories pass by your mind.
4. Friends? Nobody worth a friend during grief because they may seem to understand you. but actually they're not and it's not their fault either because they are not experiencing the same. They have their own problems and own life. They don't have time for you.
5. Some, sorry many friends are 'happy' companions. They shun away from you during the period when you're really put into test.
6. Family? Not everyone gets understanding family members. If you does, be grateful to God.
7. Love and relationships is not meant for everybody, especially not when you have found the totally wrong person. So falling in love, is not necessarily beautiful for everyone.
8. We can never change anyone, unless they themselves want to change.
9. When a girl is all alone by herself in this greedy world, that is when she faces all sorts of challenges. Many things are just can't be shared to anybody.
10. A lonely girl has definitely no one to turn to even when she's afraid, Lord is her sole protector and provider.
11. Listening ears are not abundant, especially when you have a really sad story to tell. Many of voiced dissatisfaction will sound like 'complaints' to many ears. Sometimes, it's better to suppress your feelings.
12. Luck is imaginary in some people's life.
13. Some guys out there are very much oppurtunist, they try hard to use a girl's problem to play with her feelings and even in her life. Because they think, who will defend this poor girl? But they don't know that Sai is her protector.
14. Another type of people, just talk whatever without thinking about the practical applications. Some suggestions aren't good, but people will suggest to you because yet it is not themselves who going to do that.
15. Sometimes you will feel like an orphan and you may question 'is there anybody, name just one person who truly care for you', then you will realize that problems are yours, it's none of others business. They don't have the necessity to care for you.
16. Some just do not prefer to have you around, because you're not important in their life. They will only knock your door when they need some favor. During other time, their ears are deafened even when you ask them something.
17. A few like to pour sweet words on you, in which you knew how much is their 'sincerity'. Like sea waves washes the shore, their words are also temporary.
18. A real protector of a girl, is her daddy. When he's gone forever, there will never going to be a substitute. Fingers are not enough to count the amount of people who hurts her feelings.
19.When people want to see happiness, you show them that you are happy. They will believe that, they will be glad and they will ever bother to know if you are really happy. They don't have too, either.
20. Trust nobody but God. He listens...
This is not just created for fun, it is based on very personal experiences. I'm not tagging anybody here, because it is not meant for anybody. If anyone felt hurt, please accept my apology. I'm not pinpointing anybody'd misdeeds. This is just a sharing of feeling.
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