I have talked to a great length about Jessie. Now, we would look deeply into Yamini, Jessie's opponent. Yamini..to describe her, she is nothing special. She might not be the hottest, she is just a common girl. Perhaps, you could find her waiting for bus by roadside. Yamini is not the type of girl whom guys might fall at first sight. Palaga Palaga Pidikum type (guys might develop liking for her more gradually instead), haha. Yamini is Yamini for many of her own reasons. Yamini, is motherly, as she treats her guy more like a child. She just let him kicks her. Maybe, Yamini could opt to leave and become Jessie, if Kartik changed before their marriage. Maybe,the need to save her marriage, broughts out the greatest endurance out of herself. I admit, this is great as most girls are knocking the door of divorce for even small misunderstandings.
Why Yamini becomes Yamini?
- As affection grows deeper into love, Jessie becomes Yamini.
- When Jessie starts to see the childly behavior of her man, when Jessie realizes his emotional instability, Jessie realizes his loneliness and his call for assurance, Jessie might decide to risk herself and becomes Yamini.
- Yamini, has unrealistic expections at times, that her spoilt man can change with her love. It is neither possible nor impossible, it depends on the guy himself. Not every guy will be like happy-ending Kartik. And some Yamini has to remain Yamini till their last breath, unfortunately.
- A Jessie might deny you for many reason, but for once if she decides to be your Yamini, she will be one, against all the obstacles. It can just take a second for Jessie to be Yamini but it will be like forever for Yamini to be Jessie, once she had made her mind to be there for you.
How to find your Yamini?
- If you flirt, if you're desperate into relationship, Yamini might not even get close to you. Yamini knows that you're just looking around.
- Even if you're pakka descent, Yamini might not necessarily chose you. Not if she don't feel the need of her presence in your life.
- What if you're pakka local rowdy ? Mestilah Yamini rejects at once, if you think so, it can be wrong. Yamini searches for your heart, if she finds it comfortable, she will never let you go.
Yamini's characterisctics:
- Never let her man down physically:
Performs chores for him, prepares his breakfast, wash and iron his shirts,prepares your shirt for work, sew it when it's torn, if she doesn't prepare his lunch, she will call him up to ask if he has taken his lunch, prepares his dinner, massage him after a tiring day and fulfills his sexual need if they're married.
- Never let her man down emotionally
Will provide assurance for his plans,will let him to show anger on her and does not take it as big deal, will fight with him to maximum limit but never leaves him, will even use 4-letter words in private arguments but will apologize for her misdeeds as she care for his feeling, Might 'merajuk' with her man but never to the extent that he has to knee down to beg.
- Never let down of her man's dignity :
Will let her man to pay, even if it's actually her money. Will not stand anybody who underestimates her man, may it be her own mother. Will work on whatever she can towards his success. Will never brought his manly dignity down under any circumstances. She will not let him to do house chores in front of friends or relatives. Even if she's highly educated, she will willingly, abide to him, at least in presence of third person.
- Always pray for his well-being
Yamini never fails to pray for her man, even if he's a villain. Even if he is misbehaving all the way, she only thinks of nurturing him. The whole world could her as being stupid but she knows what she is doing. She sees him as a child, who is unaware of his misdeeds. Of course, every Yamini secretly yearns that her man will change one day.
Yamini's Verdict
Yamini, is the perfect example of how much a woman can endure for her man. How many men does that? Love failure creates either Devdass or playboy, girls are blamed for both. Yamini cares you physically, but did her you care for her physical need instead of toying her for his need? ( from food, comfort to sex) Yamini care you emotionally, but did you mind to care for her emotions ( At times, you don't even say sorry as you feel it is against your manly ego) Yamini cares for your dignity, but did you perform the same (You let your mum and sister to abuse her), Yamini cares for your well-being, did you care for her happiness ? (You smoke, drink and sleep with other women, you're just self-centred).
What Yamini wants from you?
- You don't have to call her, sayang, baby, honey, etc. Simply, 'Sapthiya?', even without mentioning the name, is seriously enough.
- You don't have to buy her Kenny Rogers, but just a plate of char keow teow, with your hard-earned money, that is more than enough.
- You don't have to buy her a diamond ring, but just a nail polish with your own money, that is ample.
- You don't have to pretend to shower care by asking every moment, if she has eaten, but a word of scold for her attitude of not eating, will be more meaningful for her.
- You don't have to say 'I miss you' every one second, but just say 'i'm sorry' when you're drunk, that's very much soothing for her.
- Yamini might not ask you to buy her anything, but will be the happiness if you bought even a pin for her, under your own intention.
Yamini is not a fool, but she will do all this once she has made her mind to be with this man of her choice. You can find Yamini in almost any girl, but of course your effort determines either you get a Jessie or a Yamini. Sometimes, chemistry plays a role too. At times, things just work magically between two person, at another time, it doesn't work no matter how hard you try. Yamini is not merely fantasy, she exists within every woman, but it takes the right man to unveil the hidden character.Remember, terms and conditions apply! Nobody is perfect and so perfect Yamini, as in Mayakkam Enna is a fantasy.Love is a subjective matter, every woman showers their love differently. Smile, advice, pray, yell, nag, slap, hug, kiss...all is LOVE. It just takes the right heart to see. The right man does see what a wrong man failed to see.
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